Thursday, 20 November 2014

Don't be easy to please.. Choose wisely.

Few days back i was passing by a trash cart, someone has thrown bouquet of half dead flowers in it. From the distance I was not able to comprehend that whether they are alive or half dead flowers. but that bouquet led me to doubt whether that is a flower cart or a garbage cart. I kept looking and when i reached a little closer I realized that actually its a trash cart full of trash and rotten leftovers.

It happens with most of us more often. People, who are full of lies, with no positive content and anything which is good for a person and for a society, wears a fake personality and lead us to believe in him and considering him great. They take advantage of our innocence. They do few good things and hide all their negativity behind them. We don't bother to look deep into them and assume that they are hero. we let them influence our consciousness. but if we keep looking into them they will reveal their truth.. because it is a very famous say that ... Nature and signature don't change easily. 

So if we keep looking into them they will reveal their character. Personality can open the gate, but its character which keeps them open.

So either don't make anybody a Hero. but if you are making any then don't make in hurry. Don't be easy to please, make a good choice. Society need heroes but not wolves in the deer skin..

Good Luck   

Thursday, 24 July 2014

Do your Habits complements your Goals????

What we want, is in our control. But what we will get, can not always be in our control. Why? Because most of the time we only wish to get something or to achieve something. But our actions are contrary.

There is a difference between wishing for something and wanting something. When we wish for anything there is no force in it. We just see something and start to wish to get that. But when we want then there is some force in it. We are willing to work for that and make necessary changes in our lifestyle. If you are only wishing then you can not get that. Whatever type of life we are living is depend on the type of habits or lifestyle we have developed for ourselves. To bring any kind of change in your life you have to make changes in your habits.
Thinking about changing the life without changing habits is nothing but fooling oneself. I have experienced this for all my life. Whenever I would want any thing which I did not have at that moment I had to make changes in my habits accordingly.

So, If you have plan for something big, take a look on your habits. It should be a part of your planning to achieve your goals. If your habits are not according to your goal then make provision for amending them accordingly to accelerate the process..

When we see a successful person we only see the result. We don't see that what he has done to get that success. Normal people only wish to be like him. But, those who really want to be like them they try to know their life style, habits and things which they do differently from the others.

This one quote which I heard in Ted talk is relevant here.

YOUR LIFE DOESN'T GET BETTER BY CHANCE, IT GETS BETTER BY CHANGE.

SO, I wish you all the best. Good luck.. And please share with your friends, comment and follow my blog.
Thanks a lot....

Saturday, 22 February 2014

Gender Equality.

Hey dear readers
I promised readers of my blog that if I come across anything good to read or view I will share with you. Hence I am sharing a good article about gender equality which i read today. It worth reading. Hit the link, you will like it. 

मृत्यु के बाद भी क्या समाप्त नहीं होता?

जब सिकंदर की मृत्यु हुई तो उसने मरने से पहले ये कह रखा था कि जब उसकी शवयात्रा निकाली जाय तो उसके हाथ ताबूत से बाहर निकाल दिए जाएं। ताकि ल...